I think the biggest issue with relationships sometimes is the phrase, "I love you" being said too soon. It's an important phrase and should only be said when you actually mean it. It's a feeling that just comes naturally, and it just happens when you say it; it shouldn't be rushed or forced.
Also, being "in love" is a lot different than loving someone. Being in love is when there is no one else you'd rather be with. That person is your everything, you can't imagine yourself without that person. Being in love with a person doesn't always mean that he or she is your true love, but it usually does. People can fall out of love, which is why they are not always your true love/soul mate. Being in love is an amazing feeling and that's the best thing to share with someone.
i think you're right, but what makes the "right" time, right? i also believe that they're so many different variations of love, the love i feel for my friends is different than the love i feel for my mum, or my kitten Paddington. but loving anything, no matter what or who it is, is a great feeling.
ReplyDeletethe "right" time is just when it comes naturally and isn't forced. and I completely agree with you on the difference of the love between family, friends, and pets (I might even do a post soon on that) :)
ReplyDeleteI think you're right on this, and a lot of people use the phrase "i love you" too soon, or do not take it seriously. A lot of people do not know when the right time is, and sometimes rush right into it. I agree with you that it can't be rushed or forced. It is something worth waiting for, and by waiting a person will know if it is truly love. I also agree that there is a difference between saying i love you and being in love with someone. I love your blog! i think it is so cute!
ReplyDeletehaha i cant agree with you more. I remember when I was in the 8th grade, I had my first girlfriend, and we threw around love like it was a normal phrase. We would constantly be blowing up each others facebooks and phones with "i love you". The relationship didn't last longer than like 3 weeks. That's how strong our love was.
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